35 Responses to “I had an abortion 5 months ago and every since that it's been hard for me to conceive?”

1. 
   Theophane Says:
   13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

   Hi Banana.

   You need to see a doctor. Only an OB-Gyn can diagnose the problem. Abortions are hard on the body and can sometimes cause scarring of the uterus, which sometimes prevents the egg from attaching properly. See a doctor.

   You never said if the child you aborted belonged to the man you are with now. If it didn’t, then I can understand your reasons. But if the child you aborted did belong to the man you are currently with, then I am confused as to why now- five months later- you wish for another pregnancy. Was there something wrong with the last pregnancy- was the baby going to have birth defects?

   I ask that you really think about the reasons why you want to conceive now. You should even pray about it. Is it out of guilt? If so, then you are not ready for another child…

   Personally, my advice to you is to wait before trying for another child. Give your body a year or two to heal, and then try again. However, I still think you should see a doctor. There might be something seriously wrong.

   Best Wishes…
   T.

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   shebear0664 Says:
   13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

   Attention answering people – check out her other questions…

   As to my answer…
   You don’t sound like you need any more children. You are only 22, already have 3, and have aborted 1 then started trying for another only about a month after the abortion.

   Why is any of this our business? Well, it’s not unless (as I suspect) you are having more children than you can handle and we have to pay taxes for welfare to support you just because you want to keep having kids when you are having a hard time with the pressure from the ones you have.

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   JoR L Says:
   13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

   I am sure you have paid your price for the abortion. That must have been a difficult decision.

   Something could have happened during that abortion. If you did the abortion in a not recognized hospital, they could have severely, if worse permanently, damage the internal lining of your womb.

   This would make the fertilized egg unable to attach to your womb for further development into fetus.

   However, there are more than one reason if you are unable to get pregnant. Maybe the problem is on your husband. And I must say 5 months is consider a very short period for attempt to get pregnant.

   You should pay a visit to obstetrician-gynecologist to discuss this matter. Live a healthy lifestyle, rest more, workout, eat a good balance diet to keep your body at the peak condition for conception. And for your husband, eat more oyster to boost the Zinc, two Orange a day for 1 month to increase Vitamin C; all these to keep his sperm at top condition. (Good trees grow from good seeds)

   I hope you will soon have a healthy baby, and if possible, babies.

4. 
   C K Says:
   13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

   You have to give your body and mental state time to heal. You’re probably not concieving because you are stressed and/or feel guilty. Try taking a "break" for a month or two where you don’t do any charting but continue with your "normal relations".

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   wvcountrygirl_93 Says:
   13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

   I’m not trying to be rude,but if your trying so hard to have a baby now then why did you have an abortion?

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   Jessica C Says:
   13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

   why would you get an abortion and then 5 months later want to have a baby. that makes no since. you need to rethink the issue about having a baby. i think you need to grow up first.

7. 
   ~Genie~ Says:
   13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

   why did you have the e abortion in the first place? you could have had a baby by now. I think that your getting payback for what you did to your unborn child. It always comes back to bit you in the a$$.

8. 
   good_vrs_evil! Says:
   13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

   very tragic story ppppfft…………. but if you cant say anything nice say nothing at all …………so I’ll shut up!

9. 
   bubbles Says:
   13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

   I have to agree with some of the other answers. You had an abortion 5 months ago, you had a chance for another child and gave it away. I don’t see how waiting 5 months makes you more ready to have one now then you did then. Your body also might not be ready to have one physically because of the abortion. Sometimes having an abortion cause problems internally to keep you from getting pregnant again

10. 
    mar Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    What is the rush to have a baby? You aborted one already. What if you decide to abort the next one? When God gives you a gift you need to treasure it.

    Are you married? Five months is not very long to be trying to conceive. If it is still a problem in a year see your doctor.

11. 
    bmwgirl54 Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    22 one child already and an abortion 5 months ago…I think you have other issues….focus on the child you already have before having another one. Are you sure your just not looking for the attention you get from being pregnant? Would the abortion not eat at you- why would you even consider another child when this one could have been here in four months….you should really put a lot more thought into this first….

12. 
    roxy_sakura Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    i think if you wait til you’re a bit older to have a child. but anyways why did u do the abortion if you want to have a kid? it doesnt make sense. or did you mean u are guilty that u had the abortion?

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    NDN Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    It takes time for your body to recover from a traumatic thing like that. You may not even been able to concieve at all. I know someone who has had a few abortions and is still fine though. I am not going to judge you and I am sure you had your reasons but please be sure you are ready for a child this time because there may not be another.

14. 
    WhyAskWhy Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    Unlike some of the others here, I am not so quick to judge as to why you had an abortion. For one, it’s not my business…for another, for all we know you had medical reasons and no choice.

    It takes time for your body to heal from such procedure so you really shouldn’t be trying to conceive right now, anyway. Give it time.

15. 
    slumdogg Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    This is why morons and imbeciles should not be allowed to reproduce! You just killed your last baby, and now you want another??? You’re pathetic !!!!

16. 
    sunflower23 Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    Y WOULD U GET AN ABORTION 5 MONTHS AGO??? WERE U UNSURE OF THE FATHER? NOT MEANT TO BE RUDE… BUT WHY GET AN ABORTION THEN TURN AROUND 5 MONTHS LATER AND BOO-HOO THAT U CAN’T GET PREGNANT

17. 
    cnkbrum Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    do you mean you had a misscarriage? If so give your body time then talk to your doctor

18. 
    jason p Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    ermm..karma? it comes around

19. 
    Elana Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    There are certainly things that can happen during an abortion
    that may make it more difficult (or impossible) to conceive.

    However, is your current mate the same as the father to the
    baby that was aborted? If not, the problem may be his.

    That is, it may be that you are fine but he has a low sperm count
    or motility issues.

    Its easy enough to find out – both of you can get tested.

    However, 5 months is *NOTHING* – I’ve known people to
    try for years before conceiving naturally.

20. 
    teenmommy Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    you don’t deserve to get pregnant again. plain and simple

    You are a murderer!

21. 
    debra_har Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    Cause you murdered a child already….odds are it may have been your only chance……..

22. 
    brevejunkie Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    It’s very strange that you want a baby now…only 5 months after aborting a perfectly good one. I hope you don’t get pregnant. I hope you developed endometriosis and horrible scar tissue after your abortion, and now you’re infertile. Murderess.

23. 
    mxlj Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    you murder a child, and just 5 month later want another??? maybe you dont deserve another.

24. 
    anadah Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    you need to let your body heal first, take renatal vitamins, get a checkup by your ob/gyn and stop trying so hard. It will happen naturally

25. 
    whatsername Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    that’s funny!!

26. 
    star sailor Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    go back to school and don`t have any more kids until you are really ready, you just had an abortion 5 months ago why didn`t you just keep that one ????????????

27. 
    Lindsay W Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    Why did you have an abortion if you wanted a kid?

    5 months ago is not a long time ago… perhaps God (or whatever you believe in.. karma….) is telling you that you weren’t ready before… what makes you ready now?

28. 
    Chris Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    poor baby!

29. 
    Tia V Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    If you want to get pregnant now why did you have an abortion 5 months ago? If you weren’t selfish you could already be 5 months pregnant.

30. 
    TooYoung4This Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    If your trying to conceive why did you get an abortion?

    Abortions can do permanent damage, you might not because to conceive again.

31. 
    gsschulte Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    why didnt you keep the one from 5 months ago? and that is a trauma to your body maybe you should go see your gyno

32. 
    Gothic Martha Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    I’m sorry, I am a little perplexed. You killed a life, and now you want to create another one? I’m sorry, you sound too immature to have a baby.Why don’t you wait a while and figure yourself out. YOU had abortion 5 months ago, howlong have you been "trying" to conceive? Did you even think about the situation before you decided to abort then? Did you even think about trying to conceive now ?Or did you even consider what answers you were going to get for your question?

33. 
    angel Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    if you want a child so bad why the abortion??

34. 
    boy_jam_arch Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    mi no know

35. 
    Daniel L Says:
    13. December 2010 at 12:26 am

    Why did you have an abortion if you are trying to have a baby. Your question doesn’t make sense.

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